Sometimes, no matter how much energy we put into things, disappointments still arise as things are not quite as we had hoped.
We often set our hopes on expectations that we would like to happen, yet life can deliver only what is perfect at any one time. So it is about learning from the experience and trusting that if you have love in your heart and pure intention in the things you do, that only good things can happen, even if they don't always appear that way. So by seeing everything as a blessing, you can learn to deal with disappointment and see The world is full of wonderful and enlightening people who bring inspiration, love, challenge, laughter, joy, forgiveness and hope to all around.
Learning to see the beauty in all means living a life that is blissful. For when you truly understand that each person is just a pot of magic upon the earth bringing growth and development into the life of another as their lives touch, it brings a different feel to the whole experience of life. Letting go truly of your fears and seeing the beauty of all around you will fill your life with nothing but abundance and joy. When you feel someone is rearing difficulty within you, honor then with Namaste and know that they are helping you to unravel the lessons you came here to learn. May you find peace and tranquility on this journey and learn to love every minute of the life you are in. A rainy day gives you time to play as it brings things around you to a slower pace. Most people unless they have to, would rather stay inside when it it pouring with rain outside. So when you are inside it gives you time to connect to you. To play and have some fun and to truly learn to love the very being that you are.
Try getting out the paints or playing some games. Meditate listening to the rain and feel the inner you glowing with warmth as it feels snug and warm inside. Do some baking or cooking. Whatever it is that makes you truly smile. For it need not be a glum day when the rain A friend of my daughters, Helen Coleman aged 14, suggested to me the other day that we are like White Board Markers.
We all come from the source (being white). We each have different personalities and with these we paint the world in different colours. These can vary daily and so each day can be started anew. Also, some colours are stronger than others and can overwrite those who weaker, so it is important to recognize everyone's colour and its beauty and White board markers can be bought from different origins and so each person comes from a different part of the world. How you create your day is entirely your choice but always remember that you can erase things that have happened in the past and create a whole new fresh picture for the future. To begin making big changes in your life it can help to change little things first to build your confidence, helping to reduce the fear of the unknown.
So why not try changing the hand your brush your teeth with. I have been doing this for a while now and each time I do it reminds me how challenging change can be. For example, the muscles in my left hand are just not used to working in that way. It is so much quicker and easier to use my right hand. But after several weeks of determination and desire to change, I am finding it much easier. This can be likened very much to the mind. For to change old patterns of thoughts can take longer than you hope, but if you are determined and desire the change, you will make it happen. So try the toothbrush first. Allow your body to get used the idea that you can change. Show yourself how much you can achieve even when at first it seems like an almost impossible task. Most of all, laugh lots and have fun doing it. Often we have many ideas and great enthusiasm to go with them but just lack the confidence in ourselves to put them into action.
When confidence is holding you back, consider what it is that has been said to you in your past and how you can remove the blocks so that you can then reach your true potential. Use EFT or NLP or other belief changing techniques to help you change the effects they ha Trying out something new which takes you out of your comfort zone is often going to bring with it a sense of fear of the unknown. Yet it is by taking these steps into new arenas that we grow and develop the most. We learn what we are truly capable of. So if you have something you want to achieve, keep on keeping on, for in the end you will get there, even if it means climbing a few mountains before you do. For being in this world is about finding true happiness within yourself and if reaching your true potential is where you want to be, then stop letting yourself get in the way, and allow the wonderful person that you are to shine brightly in every way. Bruce Lipton in his book, Biology of the Mind, reveals that during the first six years of your life, you are like a tape recorder, a sponge. Everything that you see and hear is absorbed and taken on board.
Now taking that with the effects of your mother whilst she was pregnant, means that the blue print to your thoughts and feelings were very much set during this time. So considering this, it is worth revisiting your childhood experiences and looking at what it is that might still be affecting you from reaching your goals now, that happened during that time. These things do not have to be big. Even such things as having to be quiet because your father worked nights can have a dramatic affect on how you feel about yourself and how you approach being out in the general public. With regard to adopted or fostered children, even if they have received nothing but love and care during their time with you, the time they were in the womb and short time they were with their parents, will have had a dramatic affect on their thoughts and feelings about themselves. So when healing yourself and encouraging others around you too, it is important to remember these Yesterday I was aware that past lives could have an effect on your current life, but I was not aware to what extent.
After visiting Caroline Cousins for some Theter Healing, I became aware that I spells/curses had been placed on me in previous lifetimes that were affecting my very being and way I was living my life today. So not only do we have to consider the things in this lifetime that block us, but also that there are things we have no recollection of that will be stopping us from reaching our true potential. EFT, meditation, Past Life Regression and Theter Healing are just some of the tools you can use to find out what these are and clear them. So if there is something that you are feeling has been pulling you back but you have just not understood what, then try out some of these techniques and see where it takes you. Today I feel amazing - like a huge weight has been lifted from my being. Have you ever considered that your environment is a reflection of your mind and how you are thinking?
As we go about our day we just accept the environment around us and take it for granted that it is there. However, if you were to step back for a moment and look at your home, the people you have around you, the food you eat, the garden you have, it would tell you an awful lot about you. For you are the creator of your world. The thoughts that you have had, have created what you have in your life. So if your house is forever having problems and dramas are being created, it is telling you that you need to stop and consider your life and how you can calm things down. For it is your thoughts that is creating the chaos. If you were to consider your garden, what would it say to you? If it is neglected because there is always too many other things to do, then again it is suggesting that your mind is cluttered and cannot think about things outside of the immediate surroundings - fire fighting with life. If it is orderly and everything has to be in its place, then perhaps it is that you find it difficult to make changes in your life and like everything to be in order. You might find it difficult to think outside the box. As for the food you eat, again a reflection of how you consider yourself. If you eat more junk than good, then it suggests that you have not found time to love who you are. If you are constantly propping yourself up with sugar and caffeine then you are doing far too much and need to consider time out for yourself. Peaceful time. So, take time to consider your surroundings for then you will see what it is that you need to look at within. It is known that even when you were in your mothers womb your parents were having an influence on you. This was stated by Bruce Lipton in Biology of the Mind - a very interesting book/tape if you want to learn more about the scientific way of thinking with regard to the way the Universe works.
The attitude of your mother and father to your pregnancy could have had a lasting effect on your life especially if it was a negative feeling. This means that when you are dealing with old patterns of behaviour and recognizing thoughts in your head, it could be as deep rooted as when you were in the womb. So when letting go of your difficulties and things holding you back, be aware that it is not only the things you can remember but also things that just happened. Know that whatever it may be and whoever is behind the influence of it, that forgiveness is the key to letting it go and letting your life truly flow. |
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