Rejection limits many people's lives in ways they often don't realize.
Everything that we undertake to do has a great chance of success yet often things don't work out as we had hoped. Think of a time when you have had great focus on a project but yet the outcome was decidedly poor - it didn't reach your expectations.
Think back to the occasion. Was your mind clear or were there doubts getting in the way? Often doubts creep into our thoughts which then change the energy of the focus and create an invisible block on what we are doing. These doubts are often the result of rejection both in this lifetime and in lifetimes before. Things that have happened to us or been said that have affected our belief in ourselves.
In order to break this pattern it is necessary to observe when these doubts occur and then to find ways to change the thoughts into something positive. The fear of rejection is a strong and powerful thought which will show itself in many forms. This can be a direct thought, actions perceived as rejection by others or something which is self sabotaging, such as doubts in yourself. Recognizing the thought or feeling and understanding the reasons for it will help you to overcome it.
It is easier to tell ourselves that we are inadequate or that our work is not up to standard than it is to accept that others perception of it may not be the same as ours. Everyone is unique. No two people's perception of one thing will be the same. The important factor is that whatever you do enjoy it. If you have enjoyed the process of producing something then it will have raised your vibrations. This alone will raise your belief in you. When others then have their opinions that do not match yours, you will be able to see with clarity that it is not a personal rejection but merely their own opinion. Everyone is entitled to their own opinions and with so many people in the world, it is not surprising that so many differing opinions exist.
Be aware of your fears and live through them, for when you do you will discover a whole new area of yourself that you never before knew existed.
It is true - you are amazing.
Everything that we undertake to do has a great chance of success yet often things don't work out as we had hoped. Think of a time when you have had great focus on a project but yet the outcome was decidedly poor - it didn't reach your expectations.
Think back to the occasion. Was your mind clear or were there doubts getting in the way? Often doubts creep into our thoughts which then change the energy of the focus and create an invisible block on what we are doing. These doubts are often the result of rejection both in this lifetime and in lifetimes before. Things that have happened to us or been said that have affected our belief in ourselves.
In order to break this pattern it is necessary to observe when these doubts occur and then to find ways to change the thoughts into something positive. The fear of rejection is a strong and powerful thought which will show itself in many forms. This can be a direct thought, actions perceived as rejection by others or something which is self sabotaging, such as doubts in yourself. Recognizing the thought or feeling and understanding the reasons for it will help you to overcome it.
It is easier to tell ourselves that we are inadequate or that our work is not up to standard than it is to accept that others perception of it may not be the same as ours. Everyone is unique. No two people's perception of one thing will be the same. The important factor is that whatever you do enjoy it. If you have enjoyed the process of producing something then it will have raised your vibrations. This alone will raise your belief in you. When others then have their opinions that do not match yours, you will be able to see with clarity that it is not a personal rejection but merely their own opinion. Everyone is entitled to their own opinions and with so many people in the world, it is not surprising that so many differing opinions exist.
Be aware of your fears and live through them, for when you do you will discover a whole new area of yourself that you never before knew existed.
It is true - you are amazing.
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